There was a time in my life when I thought I had lost my love of reading. As a kid, I devoured books like candy—curled up in corners, flashlight under the covers, library card worn from use. But somewhere along the road to adulthood, life got louder and books got quieter. Work, responsibilities, endless to-do lists, and the tempting glow of screens stole the time I once set aside for stories.
And I missed it—terribly.
If you’ve found yourself nodding, feeling guilty about that unread stack of books or nostalgic for the way a great novel used to pull you in and not let go, this post is for you. I’ve been there. And the good news? That part of you isn’t gone. It’s just waiting patiently for the right moment—and maybe a little encouragement—to come back to life.
Here are some honest, practical, and heart-centered tips that helped me fall back in love with reading as an adult.
1. Start Where You Are, Not Where You Think You Should Be
For years, I thought I had to dive into big, intellectual novels or finish what I started, no matter how slow or dull it felt. That mindset made reading feel like homework. When I gave myself permission to read whatever I wanted—romance, thrillers, young adult fiction—I actually wanted to read again. Start with something fun, engaging, or comforting. No pressure. No guilt. Just joy.
2. Set the Mood
Reading isn’t just about the book—it’s about the experience. Create a cozy ritual around your reading time. Light a candle, grab a soft blanket, pour yourself a cup of something warm, and pick a comfy spot. These little rituals make a huge difference. When reading feels like self-care, it becomes something you look forward to instead of squeezing into leftover time.
3. Choose Shorter Books or Formats
Sometimes long novels can feel intimidating when you’re just getting back into the groove. Try short story collections, novellas, or even graphic novels. I personally loved easing in with cozy mysteries and heartwarming novellas—they gave me the satisfaction of finishing a book without the overwhelm.
Audiobooks also changed the game for me. I listen while driving, walking, or doing chores. It’s a great way to enjoy stories when sitting still isn’t possible.
4. Make Time—But Don’t Make It a Chore
You don’t need hours of uninterrupted time to be a reader again. Try reading for just 10 minutes before bed or during lunch. Keep a book in your bag or in the car for unexpected downtime. And if you miss a day (or a week), don’t stress. This isn’t a productivity contest. It’s about reconnecting with something you love.
5. Ditch the “Finish Every Book” Rule
One of the most freeing things I ever learned was that it’s okay to put a book down if I’m not feeling it. You owe no book your loyalty. If you’re not hooked by the first 50 pages—or even 20—move on. Life’s too short for books that don’t spark something in you. Let curiosity, not obligation, guide your reading.
6. Join a Reading Community or Book Club
There’s something magical about talking books with others. Whether it’s a virtual book club, a friend you text reading updates to, or a Facebook group of fellow readers, having that sense of community can re-ignite your passion for books. Plus, you’ll find great recommendations and encouragement along the way.
If you’re introverted like me, even just following bookish accounts on Instagram or TikTok can add that little spark of excitement. I love seeing what others are reading and getting ideas for my own list.
7. Keep a Reading Journal or Tracker
I started jotting down the books I read, when I read them, and how they made me feel. It’s not fancy—just a little notebook—but it’s become a treasured habit. Seeing your progress and reflecting on what stories moved you can build momentum. Plus, it helps you notice patterns in what you love (or don’t), which makes your next pick easier.
8. Make the Library Your Best Friend Again
The library isn’t just for kids or students—it’s a treasure trove for adult readers. I rediscovered the joy of browsing physical shelves, picking out random books, and returning to that feeling of possibility. Even better? No pressure to spend money or commit to every book you borrow. I also love using the Libby app for borrowing eBooks and audiobooks for free.
9. Be Kind to Yourself
This one might be the most important. Don’t beat yourself up if your attention wanders, if it takes you a month to finish one book, or if your reading habit doesn’t look like it used to. This is about reconnecting with joy, not adding another expectation to your plate. Read what you love, when you can, and however feels right.
Final Thoughts
Getting back into reading as an adult isn’t about becoming a “serious” reader again—it’s about remembering what books can do for your heart and your spirit. For me, they’ve brought comfort during tough times, sparked curiosity when life felt dull, and reminded me that I’m never truly alone as long as there’s a story nearby.
If you’re standing at the edge, wondering if you can still be “a reader”—I promise, you already are. All it takes is one page.
Happy reading,